i want a boyfriend , but i’m scared ?

ok so i've been wanting a boyfriend for a long long time now

and i don't know i feel so alone i feel like if i get a boyfriend i wouldn't feel like that anymore.. is that true ? Now i know if i get a boyfriend i'm not going to be miss. happy girl .. where going to have up's and downs.. but idk i just really want one

why do i feel like this all a sudden though . like last year remember always saying that i don't want a boyfriend and now all a sudden i'm having feelings of wanting a boyfriend.. sometimes i think that if i get a boyfriend he will full my empytness that i have .. but i don't know..

everytime i seen a couple i get sad , and i cry

even when i hear like a couple song .. like today i her Frankie J- Obessions i started crying cause i was listening to the words and i really liked the song.. i got so emotional

i reallllllyyyyy do want a boyfriend though ... i also want to know how to get one seriously all my friends have one and i don't.. that makes me feel like crap 🙁

21 Answers

  • well you know no one wants to be alone all the time, its not weird what you are feeling. you just aren't feeling that worth and that connection that you would feel with a guy, but trying for a guy may not help you it, it will but you will have to go about this the right way, like if there is a desperate girl then all the crappy guys find a partner, not calling you desperate, but you have to not just settle for the first guys or you will end up in this shallow and crappy relationship that will most likely leave you worse off than before, you gotta realize your probably a great girl so dont go after the first one, dont be scared its part of growing up. and you just get one by talking to guys, you just talk to them and do some mild flirting but don't go after any old guy, go about this in the good way, google and yahoo how to get a boyfriend, sounds cheesy, but do it, good luck, and i feel the same way, and i'm a guy!

  • Boyfriends don't appear like magic. If you're lonely, get busy! Get involved in some clubs or sports...that way, you have things to do and also will probably meet some great guys. I understand your feeling and it's totally normal to want a boyfriend. just don't make stupid guy decisions. if your first boyfriend is an asshole, it really doesn't help at all...you'll know when you find a really great guy to be with!

  • For starters a friendship regardless of it's type is something in life that by any means CAN NOT BE FORCED, How to get a boyfriend comes from learning to how to talk guys just as if they were someone else that you were really comfortable around. You seeming as you are comfortable will let the guys know you are at least somewhat confident in yourself. It would also to be who of you hang w/ individuals who have the same likes/dislikes. But the first step is to become friends with a few different guys

  • If there's a boy you like, maybe ask to eat lunch with him and his friends to get to know him. Once you know him better, (if he is your type), ask him to a movie or something (that you both want to see) or to have lunch, just you and him. (Just as a notice, I have never had a girlfriend, but if someone did like me this wouldn't be too bad a way to get my attention) Asking him to a movie would likely be a good way to tell him, "Hey (name of boy here)! I like you alot." without actually telling him. And you can just see where it goes from there. If he says 'no', though he's not interested and you move on to Potential Boyfriend #2. But that's just my opinion on the matter.

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    i want a boyfriend , but i'm scared ?

    ok so i've been wanting a boyfriend for a long long time now

    and i don't know i feel so alone i feel like if i get a boyfriend i wouldn't feel like that anymore.. is that true ? Now i know if i get a boyfriend i'm not going to be miss. happy girl .. where going to have up's...

  • aahha ur wonderful but seriously don't ever try to force a thing like that becuase thats how big mistakes are made u have to find someone u click with and won't screw with u which is very hard to find but take ur time it's easier to stay single and enjoy life cuz relationships help and are fun but whenu have a relationship u sometimes just wish u wouldn't so remember u can't choose who u fall in love with just what u do with them so wait and when it comes make ur choice

  • If your motivation for having a boyfriend is because all your friends have one and you don't, then you're just not ready for one. That statement alone is the epitome of immaturity...

  • Don't rush yourself ,you should get in touch with yourself first make Friends don't just jump into something with some guy .You have to see what's going on inside of you first before you can focus on being with some guy.

  • Having a boyfriend will NOT make you feel whole. You need to feel whole by yourself BEFORE you get a boyfriend. Try getting a new hobby, spending more time with your friends, or maybe even going to therapy. Ask your parents if they are okay with that.

    Once you have learned to love yourself and feel complete without a guy, then maybe you will be ready. Good luck.

  • well get a boyfriend... don't be scared.... there a lot of guys out there being single too

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